There is a place in the HEART
where THOUGHTS become WISHES
and WISHES become DREAMS.
It's a place where anything is possible
if we only BELIEVE.
WHEN you're 20+ years old, without a boyfriend or even
a suitor, you are considered a freak in this world.
Yep, no matter how hard you explain it, you are the
odd one out. Attending parties alone. Commuting alone.
Spending Valentine's Day watching "Sleepless in
Seattle" for the nth time. In family reunions you are
always asked that one question: "Do you have a
boyfriend?" That's because a lot of people think that
a man is the be-all and end-all of a woman's
existence.
So over a perfectly good slice of chocolate cake, I
considered the question: "Why do I choose to be
without a boyfriend?" I do not completely understand
men. It is not possible and I don't attempt to. But
this is what I know.
First: I don't have to worry about gaining a few
pounds. That's why I can enjoy a perfectly good slice
of chocolate cake without guilt. I don't have to worry
about trying to fit into a tube top for our (my
hypothetical boyfriend and I) Saturday night date. I
don't have to count the calories in a box of Oreo just
to keep my boyfriend's eyes from wandering. I can
indulge myself with a whole order of chicken cutlets
from the Aveneto without worrying about my abs. You
see, men are very visual creatures. It bothers them to
see their woman even with a little fat. No such thing
as unconditional love unless you go to the gym first.
Second: I'll be known just as me and not as someone's
partner. "And hypothetical boyfriend" does not become
my new last name.
Third: If all I needed was just someone to bring me
home from school, there's always carpool, my dad and
commuting. If what I needed was someone to carry my
things for me, four males in my barkada could do it.
True I can't expect much from them on Valentine's. But
come on, it's just one day in a year. To quote Bridget
Jones: "Valentine's Day is purely commercial, cynical
enterprise, anyway. Matter of supreme indifference to
me."
Fourth: Cliche? and a truth: I had the privilege of
knowing myself better. I have heard this a lot of
times and it's true. People make the mistake of
jumping into a relationship without knowing who they
really are. You have to take time to learn even the
simplest things about yourself. We're individuals.
We're not extensions of another personality. You don't
have to pretend you like R&B music because your
boyfriend does. Or eat blueberry cheesecake even if
you think it tastes like perfume.
Fifth: I heard this from the creator of the TV series
"Sex & the City": Often, women look for that someone
to complete themselves. But that just doesn't work
because you alone should complete yourself. Before I
chose to remain unattached, I had the illusion that
there was 50 percent of me somewhere in the world. I
would walk around expecting the next man to be that 50
percent. That's why it was so easy to believe that you
were in love although you were really in love with the
idea of being in love. Blame Jerry Maguire and his
"You complete me" line.
Sixth: I can be friends with all the guys I want
without anyone hounding or interrogating me. A friend
told me what a great feeling it was to go to a party
and mingle with all sorts of people. It's much better
than sitting in the farthest corner of the bar with
your boyfriend, watching everybody else having a good
time. Being single gives you more freedom.
Seventh: With just too many assholes and perverts out
there, this is probably a major reason I choose to be
single. Every single encounter with an asshole
reaffirms my commitment to remain unattached. A friend
told me that assholes act the way they do because they
think they're God's gift to women. I think assholes
are the way they are because they can't accept the
fact that women can be better than them. Believe me,
I've met all kinds: jerks, commitment phobic,
chauvinists, players, liars, peeping toms, egotists,
maniacs, etc.
Eighth: I don't have to listen to mushy songs, do
mushy things, write mushy letters and say mushy words.
I used to listen to Sunday Slowdown regularly, which
fed my illusion of undying, unrequited and true love.
Now I only listen to a lot of guitar, bass and
screaming. It feels much better.
Ninth: My life is complicated enough. I don't need
someone to complicate it further. It breaks my heart
to see my friends distressed over a guy. "He didn't
call." "He didn't show up." "I saw him with another
girl." "He spends more time with his friends than me."
"He cancelled." "I think he's breaking up with me."
"He thinks I should give him space." "But he just
wants to be friends." "He wants us to get back
together." "He's a bad driver." I have heard these and
more. Thank God all I have to worry about is getting
my papers for school done."
Tenth: Cynthia Alexander, in her song "Walk Down the
Road," could not have said it better: "I'm glad to be
on my own. I have never been this free! I've never been
so alive, so much in love with life."
So I'm fine just the way I am, thank you very much.
I'm fine being alone, fine without a man. People tell
me I'm just saying that because I haven't met my man
yet. Well, I'm not holding my breath waiting because I
like me just as I am. Being single isn't about not
having a man. It's about having fun, knowing yourself
and having a perfectly good slice of chocolate cake.
Saturday, January 24, 2009
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
signs that someone is a JERK
i actually heard this from rx93.1's "Top Ten" yesterday, and i couldn't help but to be so inis with what other people can actually do. lemme just post 'em here.
........ang matamaan, buti nga!
jotino - people who eat like pigs in other people's houses.
lizy - people who press both up and down buttons in the elevator on the day that you are late.
hell girl - ung mga lalakeng binubunggo ka just to get a feel of ur boobs and then he'll snicker and then tell his buddy after, "pre, maliit nga."
julia - i broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he slept with my ex-best friend, who's not exactly pretty. and his excuse? he said, "nakakaawa naman daw, para naman daw makatikim ng gwapo."
no name - a jerk is someone who borrows money from u, and when the money is with him, days after sisiraan ka na nya. and when u confront him about it, the guy has the nerrrrrve to get mad at u and say, "dahil sa ginawa mo sakin, ndi ko babayaran ung utang ko sau."
mr. perk - men who try to win back their exes just as she's about to move on, only to leave her again.
hotchick - i have created 2 ym accounts just to check if my boyfriend is flirting with other girls. i texted him and asked him where he was, and he said he's blah blah blah...and that he's not home, etc etc..he's offline in my real account, but then he's chatting with my other ym account.
no name - one time, i held the elevator open for a group of friends who were moving so slow for an entire minute. and when they were inside the elevator, there was no single thank you or whatever from any of them.
no name - my ex-boyfriend once told me that he really, really, really envies guys with pretty girlfriends.
mersky - a guy leaving a girl for another girl because the other girl buys him anything he wants.
abugaga08 - me and my bf were in an elevator when a bunch of a certain nationality come in and start giggling, and they were giggling the whole time we were in the elevator. after they got off, i asked my bf bakit cnu kaya ang pinagtatawanan nila? my bf said, "cguro ekaw, un taba mo."
pinay goddess - in a bar, a guy walks up to me and said "u know what you need to lose weight, and ur a little too old for me, but ur turning me on."
casey - after a guy dumps u, he offers his best friend to court u.
jarred - my friend told my girl best friend, after making love, "i only love u as a friend."
abugaga08 - my boyfriend's friends are always setting him up with other girls.
smoke - my soon-to-be ex-husband refused to give financial support to our 3 kids. he's a lawyer. i know he earns 500,000 a month, and the support is just 30,000 and yet he refuses to give.
ang manunusok - we once had a group paper and when it was time to submit, a groupmate volunteered to print it for the group. later we found out, she attached a note, a note to the teacher that she did most of the work.
simon walker - i have a friend. one time he did it with a girl but said that was she was not very good. the very next sentence went, "gusto mo sayo na lang?"
no name - when i told my husband that it is so unfair that he is always cheating on me, he goes, "well, whoever said life was fair?"
vivo menor - one time, my bf and 2 of my friends went to a fast food along katipunan to eat. as my 2 friends were leaving to order a food to eat, my bf said, "u know what, u and ur friends choose the worst restaurants."
okidok em - one time my friend's boyfriend was trying to break up with her, but she was trying to make it work, she tried evrything, "maybe we can do this and do that." obviously, he was flirting with other girls. finally, the boyfriend went, "hindi mo ba naiintindihan, bading ako! bading!"
no name - a quote from an ex, "kahit gaano pa karami ang mga babae ko, ekaw lang ang mamahalin ko!"
no name - my boyfriend of eleven years, eleven long years as boyfriend and girlfriend together, told me, "you're my longest fling."
pasturio - my gf got pregnant while she was working abroad. and finally when i confronted her, "why did you do it?" she answered, "akala ko ndi ako mabubuntis eh."
no name - guys only call when they want it.
vivo manor - i was dating this hot 37 fling acquaintance recently. he invited me out for a movie. as we were approaching about 10 steps away from the theater, our conversation turned to his new year's celebration in singapore. i asked him if his family was there, and he said, "ay oo, i spend the new year with my partner." so i answered, "ganu na kau katagal ng gf mo?" so the guy answered, "hanggang ngayon."
stage mom - years ago, when i broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half, we didnt talk. so finally i decided, after so long, to call him up for a closure. so small talk, i was sharing with him that i got hired in a big multi-national firm which he knows i've been vying for so long, blah blah blah. he was quiet all the time. and finally when he talked, he just said in a very sarcastic tone, "well, i hope that gives you a million pesos a month, cos that's what you think, you're so good. right?"
feedy - when a guy friend found out that i was about to leave to work in the middle east, he actually told me, "oh, bigay mo na lang sakin yung first time mo kesa kunin ng sapilitan dun."
jeboy - i was heartbroken because my childhood crush was getting married. the thing is, it got extra extra heartbreaking because when my childhood crush got married, during the wedding, the priest asked the groom, "o tanong ko sayu, bakit mo sya pinakasalan?" and the guy answered, into the microphone, during the vow, in the church, "eh kasi nabuntis ko po sya."
here's my own experience: my ex-boyfriend on the day of our break up told me, "tumigil ka nga ng kaiiyak jan. stop being desperate. feeling mo ba wala na magmamahal sau na katulad ko? makakalimutan mo din ako. it's all in the mind." (tsk tsk.. what an airhead!)
........ang matamaan, buti nga!
jotino - people who eat like pigs in other people's houses.
lizy - people who press both up and down buttons in the elevator on the day that you are late.
hell girl - ung mga lalakeng binubunggo ka just to get a feel of ur boobs and then he'll snicker and then tell his buddy after, "pre, maliit nga."
julia - i broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he slept with my ex-best friend, who's not exactly pretty. and his excuse? he said, "nakakaawa naman daw, para naman daw makatikim ng gwapo."
no name - a jerk is someone who borrows money from u, and when the money is with him, days after sisiraan ka na nya. and when u confront him about it, the guy has the nerrrrrve to get mad at u and say, "dahil sa ginawa mo sakin, ndi ko babayaran ung utang ko sau."
mr. perk - men who try to win back their exes just as she's about to move on, only to leave her again.
hotchick - i have created 2 ym accounts just to check if my boyfriend is flirting with other girls. i texted him and asked him where he was, and he said he's blah blah blah...and that he's not home, etc etc..he's offline in my real account, but then he's chatting with my other ym account.
no name - one time, i held the elevator open for a group of friends who were moving so slow for an entire minute. and when they were inside the elevator, there was no single thank you or whatever from any of them.
no name - my ex-boyfriend once told me that he really, really, really envies guys with pretty girlfriends.
mersky - a guy leaving a girl for another girl because the other girl buys him anything he wants.
abugaga08 - me and my bf were in an elevator when a bunch of a certain nationality come in and start giggling, and they were giggling the whole time we were in the elevator. after they got off, i asked my bf bakit cnu kaya ang pinagtatawanan nila? my bf said, "cguro ekaw, un taba mo."
pinay goddess - in a bar, a guy walks up to me and said "u know what you need to lose weight, and ur a little too old for me, but ur turning me on."
casey - after a guy dumps u, he offers his best friend to court u.
jarred - my friend told my girl best friend, after making love, "i only love u as a friend."
abugaga08 - my boyfriend's friends are always setting him up with other girls.
smoke - my soon-to-be ex-husband refused to give financial support to our 3 kids. he's a lawyer. i know he earns 500,000 a month, and the support is just 30,000 and yet he refuses to give.
ang manunusok - we once had a group paper and when it was time to submit, a groupmate volunteered to print it for the group. later we found out, she attached a note, a note to the teacher that she did most of the work.
simon walker - i have a friend. one time he did it with a girl but said that was she was not very good. the very next sentence went, "gusto mo sayo na lang?"
no name - when i told my husband that it is so unfair that he is always cheating on me, he goes, "well, whoever said life was fair?"
vivo menor - one time, my bf and 2 of my friends went to a fast food along katipunan to eat. as my 2 friends were leaving to order a food to eat, my bf said, "u know what, u and ur friends choose the worst restaurants."
okidok em - one time my friend's boyfriend was trying to break up with her, but she was trying to make it work, she tried evrything, "maybe we can do this and do that." obviously, he was flirting with other girls. finally, the boyfriend went, "hindi mo ba naiintindihan, bading ako! bading!"
no name - a quote from an ex, "kahit gaano pa karami ang mga babae ko, ekaw lang ang mamahalin ko!"
no name - my boyfriend of eleven years, eleven long years as boyfriend and girlfriend together, told me, "you're my longest fling."
pasturio - my gf got pregnant while she was working abroad. and finally when i confronted her, "why did you do it?" she answered, "akala ko ndi ako mabubuntis eh."
no name - guys only call when they want it.
vivo manor - i was dating this hot 37 fling acquaintance recently. he invited me out for a movie. as we were approaching about 10 steps away from the theater, our conversation turned to his new year's celebration in singapore. i asked him if his family was there, and he said, "ay oo, i spend the new year with my partner." so i answered, "ganu na kau katagal ng gf mo?" so the guy answered, "hanggang ngayon."
stage mom - years ago, when i broke up with my boyfriend of a year and a half, we didnt talk. so finally i decided, after so long, to call him up for a closure. so small talk, i was sharing with him that i got hired in a big multi-national firm which he knows i've been vying for so long, blah blah blah. he was quiet all the time. and finally when he talked, he just said in a very sarcastic tone, "well, i hope that gives you a million pesos a month, cos that's what you think, you're so good. right?"
feedy - when a guy friend found out that i was about to leave to work in the middle east, he actually told me, "oh, bigay mo na lang sakin yung first time mo kesa kunin ng sapilitan dun."
jeboy - i was heartbroken because my childhood crush was getting married. the thing is, it got extra extra heartbreaking because when my childhood crush got married, during the wedding, the priest asked the groom, "o tanong ko sayu, bakit mo sya pinakasalan?" and the guy answered, into the microphone, during the vow, in the church, "eh kasi nabuntis ko po sya."
here's my own experience: my ex-boyfriend on the day of our break up told me, "tumigil ka nga ng kaiiyak jan. stop being desperate. feeling mo ba wala na magmamahal sau na katulad ko? makakalimutan mo din ako. it's all in the mind." (tsk tsk.. what an airhead!)
Friday, January 16, 2009
thou shall move on to the next
On my way home from my practicum, thoughts were going on in my mind about my last relationship. I did not imagine that I would be where I am now. During the break up, I really felt that I won't make it, that I wouldn't survive without him. I felt so terrible during the first two weeks. I didn't want to eat anything, and even sleeping was so difficult for me. My energy was used up in crying and my pillow was always wet with tears. My friends even told me that I looked like a zombie during those two weeks. Hahah!
Thinking about it now, after about 2 months, I feel a bit stupid for wasting my tears on him. But I don't regret everything that happened. Yeah, probably he loved me, but that didn't measure up to the pain he gave me after saying that he suddenly fell out of love. And I don't think falling out of love is enough reason to cheat or flirt. I've already heard that very lame excuse a lot from cheaters. I don't believe someone falls out of love. He's really not mature yet to handle relationships. Well, it is also probably my fault because I did not consult God about my decision on this so the relationship was really doomed to end. And in the first place, even if I knew that the relationship was not bound to last because of his past experiences, I still gave it a try. I thought that he would change, but then I was proved wrong. Lesson is, at least I tried, and I know I gave my all with no regrets.
Analyzing what happened makes me realize that God has a better plan for me than what I had made for myself. Sometimes, it makes me think to get back at him with some sort of revenge, but on the second thought, time spent on that will just be futile. Most of my friends have advised me to just resign from work and look for another company because being around him will not help. I know God will not put me into this situation if He knows I can't make it. But I'm believing that I can. I made it before, I know I can make it again.
Another lesson I have learned is that when we really want something, we can get it, even without God's help. He allows us to get what we want so we will know what happens when we control our own lives instead of allowing Him to help us. He knows best, I believe that. I feel so grateful because during the down times of my life, He never left me alone even after I have forsaken him to pursue my own happiness, which in the end was replaced with so much hurt only.
This pain is temporary, and when I get over this, I know I will be a better and a stronger person. I'll find love again.
Thinking about it now, after about 2 months, I feel a bit stupid for wasting my tears on him. But I don't regret everything that happened. Yeah, probably he loved me, but that didn't measure up to the pain he gave me after saying that he suddenly fell out of love. And I don't think falling out of love is enough reason to cheat or flirt. I've already heard that very lame excuse a lot from cheaters. I don't believe someone falls out of love. He's really not mature yet to handle relationships. Well, it is also probably my fault because I did not consult God about my decision on this so the relationship was really doomed to end. And in the first place, even if I knew that the relationship was not bound to last because of his past experiences, I still gave it a try. I thought that he would change, but then I was proved wrong. Lesson is, at least I tried, and I know I gave my all with no regrets.
Analyzing what happened makes me realize that God has a better plan for me than what I had made for myself. Sometimes, it makes me think to get back at him with some sort of revenge, but on the second thought, time spent on that will just be futile. Most of my friends have advised me to just resign from work and look for another company because being around him will not help. I know God will not put me into this situation if He knows I can't make it. But I'm believing that I can. I made it before, I know I can make it again.
Another lesson I have learned is that when we really want something, we can get it, even without God's help. He allows us to get what we want so we will know what happens when we control our own lives instead of allowing Him to help us. He knows best, I believe that. I feel so grateful because during the down times of my life, He never left me alone even after I have forsaken him to pursue my own happiness, which in the end was replaced with so much hurt only.
This pain is temporary, and when I get over this, I know I will be a better and a stronger person. I'll find love again.
Friday, January 9, 2009
huling araw
Kung tatanungin ako ng Diyos kung gaano kita minahal, ang isasagot ko, 10 beses na higit pa sa nararapat. Minahal kita hindi dahil pakiramdam ko lang tama, pero dahil ginusto ko yung naramdaman ko at walang kung ano pa man. Minsan mo na akong tinanong kung pinagsisisihan kong nakilala kita. Sinabi ko hindi. Ngayon na nga siguro ang araw na kinatatakutan ko. Dahil kapag tinanong mo ulit sa akin yan, alam kong oo na ang isasagot ko. Sa lahat kasi ng nangyari sa buhay ko, ikaw lang ang gusto kong burahin. Wala ng iba.
Alam kong tama na tong ginagawa ko ngayon. Tama ng mawala ka sa buhay ko. Dahil alam kong wala ng pag-asa yang sinasabi mong pagkakaibigan natin. Tanga lang ako na minsan kong inisip na yun ang pinanghahawakan ko pero hindi pala. Dahil pinili mo pa rin akong saktan kahit alam mong dapat naging isa kang kaibigan.
Nung mga panahong ikaw at ikaw lang ang kailangan ko, hindi man lang kita mahanap. At kahit alam kong alam mo yon, pinili mong tiisin ako. Ngayon hindi na ko umaasang nandyan ka pa, dahil simula palang nang-iwan ka na.
Itinapon ko na rin ang lahat ng kasinungalingang
sinabi mo na ang masakit ay pinaniwalaan ko. Nang sinabi mong importante ako sa yo at hindi mo kayang wala ako, kagaguhan lang yon. Siguro napilitan ka lang sabihin yon, o di kaya, sinadya mo para paasahin ako.Ngayon, lahat ng binitawan mong salita, wala ng halaga. Simple lang ang rason: dahil wala ka ring kwenta.
Wala na rin akong pakialam kung nagustuhan mo man ako o hindi. Ang importante, nagbigay ako ng buong buo at ni minsan ay hindi humingi ng kahit anong kapalit. Kahit papano, naturuan mo akong maging matatag. Natuto na rin akong tumigil sa
paghahabol at pag-iyak sa taong manhid na tulad mo.
Siguro nga nasira mo na ang lahat sa akin. Ang paninindigan ko, tapang at paniniwala ko, pati ang katauhan ko, pero kaya kong ibangon ang sarili ko
at mabuhay ng wala ka. Ako pa rin to. Oras at araw lang ang nagbago.
Ngayon na ang huling beses na sasabihin ko ito sa yo. Ngayon na ang huling pagkakataon na iisipin kita. Lahat ng bagay na dumaan, burado na. Pati buhay ko, bago na. Ngayon na ang huling oras na mamahalin kita. Ngayon na ang tamang oras para sa lahat, para malaman mo kung gaano mo ako sinaktan. Tapos na yon lahat ngayon. Ito na ang huling araw ng paghihirap...Tama na, tapos na. Pero sa huling araw na ito, isa lang ang sigurado ako.
Hindi ito ang huling araw na sinabi ko lahat to.
Alam kong tama na tong ginagawa ko ngayon. Tama ng mawala ka sa buhay ko. Dahil alam kong wala ng pag-asa yang sinasabi mong pagkakaibigan natin. Tanga lang ako na minsan kong inisip na yun ang pinanghahawakan ko pero hindi pala. Dahil pinili mo pa rin akong saktan kahit alam mong dapat naging isa kang kaibigan.
Nung mga panahong ikaw at ikaw lang ang kailangan ko, hindi man lang kita mahanap. At kahit alam kong alam mo yon, pinili mong tiisin ako. Ngayon hindi na ko umaasang nandyan ka pa, dahil simula palang nang-iwan ka na.
Itinapon ko na rin ang lahat ng kasinungalingang
sinabi mo na ang masakit ay pinaniwalaan ko. Nang sinabi mong importante ako sa yo at hindi mo kayang wala ako, kagaguhan lang yon. Siguro napilitan ka lang sabihin yon, o di kaya, sinadya mo para paasahin ako.Ngayon, lahat ng binitawan mong salita, wala ng halaga. Simple lang ang rason: dahil wala ka ring kwenta.
Wala na rin akong pakialam kung nagustuhan mo man ako o hindi. Ang importante, nagbigay ako ng buong buo at ni minsan ay hindi humingi ng kahit anong kapalit. Kahit papano, naturuan mo akong maging matatag. Natuto na rin akong tumigil sa
paghahabol at pag-iyak sa taong manhid na tulad mo.
Siguro nga nasira mo na ang lahat sa akin. Ang paninindigan ko, tapang at paniniwala ko, pati ang katauhan ko, pero kaya kong ibangon ang sarili ko
at mabuhay ng wala ka. Ako pa rin to. Oras at araw lang ang nagbago.
Ngayon na ang huling beses na sasabihin ko ito sa yo. Ngayon na ang huling pagkakataon na iisipin kita. Lahat ng bagay na dumaan, burado na. Pati buhay ko, bago na. Ngayon na ang huling oras na mamahalin kita. Ngayon na ang tamang oras para sa lahat, para malaman mo kung gaano mo ako sinaktan. Tapos na yon lahat ngayon. Ito na ang huling araw ng paghihirap...Tama na, tapos na. Pero sa huling araw na ito, isa lang ang sigurado ako.
Hindi ito ang huling araw na sinabi ko lahat to.
Thursday, January 8, 2009
yeah right!
I came across someone's blog and saw this post regarding conversations among couples, which I can SO much relate to -- before. Just for laughs, guys. Ang matamaan, buti nga! :))
HE: Nagseselos ka lang kaya ka nagagalit! Hahaha...
SHE: Ba't naman ako magseselos eh wala na nga akong nararamdaman for you kundi galit! Kaya nga nagagalit ang term eh.
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HE: You never really listened...
SHE: Why, did you ever listen to me when I tried explaining myself? You didn't even open that letter I sent which I wrote from 12 midnight to 6 in the morning. So, don't lecture about listening when you yourself don't know how.
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HE: Para akong aso na mahilig mag-chase ng cars pero 'pag andoon na ako, hindi ko na alam ang gagawin ko.
SHE: Well, it only shows how immature you still are.
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HE: Wala naman na akong kailangan sa yo eh! Ano pa ba?!
SHE: Yeah right, wala na kasi nahuthot mo na ang lahat sa akin!
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HE: Ang hilig-hilig mong sumingit kapag nagsasalita ako. Nawawala tuloy ako. You wait until you're asked to give your views.
SHE: 'Yon nga ang problema eh, you never asked!
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HE: I want my necklace* back.
SHE: No. You don't deserve that anymore.
*the guy is referring to the necklace given by her with a crucifix pendant which he asked her to keep while he was busy chasing others' skirts
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After a heated argument...
SHE: Puny*ta, hintayin mo na lang ang karma mo.
HE: That's bad. Cursing 'yan!
SHE: Ano'ng cursing? Eh 'yon naman talaga ang mangyayari 'pag nanakit ka ng ibang tao. What you give, you receive. Hindi ka pa ba nagtataka kung bakit sunud-sunod ang kamalasan mo sa buhay?!
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HE: Palagi na lang ako ang nagpapakumbaba...
SHE: Natural! Ikaw ang may atraso 'no!
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HE: I just want to date women right now and never get serious with them.
SHE: As always. May bago pa ba do'n?
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HE: Bakit ka umiiyak? Mahal mo pa ako 'nooo???
SHE: Ang kapal! Hindi ikaw ang iniiyakan ko. Naiiyak ako sa sobrang galit, bobo!
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HE: Fated na mangyari ang mga 'yon. Otherwise, I won't realize how much I love this person.
SHE: Sige, i-justify mo pa ang pagiging flirt mo. Ano'ng klaseng logic yan? You don't need other people to realize how much you love someone kung talagang nagmamahal ka.
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SHE: Mula ngayon, di ka na nagi-exist. Huwag ka nang magpakita sa akin!
HE: Eh di huwag! Ayoko na rin naman eh.
SHE: Eh bakit lapit ka pa nang lapit?!
HE: Eh bakit sama ka pa nang sama?!
SHE: Sayang ang libreng food eh! Bawas gastos din 'yon 'noh.
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SHE: Shut up! I don't even wanna hear your voice!
HE: Eh di huwag kang makinig. I am talking to myself, masama ba?
SHE: Isang salita mo pa diyan, babasagin ko ang salamin ng kotse mo!
The guy shut up. Hahaha, kotse lang pala ang katapat.
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Now I know what "He's making a monster out of me" means. When a person doesn't bring out the best in you anymore and rather does the opposite, it's about time to kick him out of your life for good before he totally destroys the innate goodness in you.
HE: Nagseselos ka lang kaya ka nagagalit! Hahaha...
SHE: Ba't naman ako magseselos eh wala na nga akong nararamdaman for you kundi galit! Kaya nga nagagalit ang term eh.
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HE: You never really listened...
SHE: Why, did you ever listen to me when I tried explaining myself? You didn't even open that letter I sent which I wrote from 12 midnight to 6 in the morning. So, don't lecture about listening when you yourself don't know how.
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HE: Para akong aso na mahilig mag-chase ng cars pero 'pag andoon na ako, hindi ko na alam ang gagawin ko.
SHE: Well, it only shows how immature you still are.
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HE: Wala naman na akong kailangan sa yo eh! Ano pa ba?!
SHE: Yeah right, wala na kasi nahuthot mo na ang lahat sa akin!
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HE: Ang hilig-hilig mong sumingit kapag nagsasalita ako. Nawawala tuloy ako. You wait until you're asked to give your views.
SHE: 'Yon nga ang problema eh, you never asked!
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HE: I want my necklace* back.
SHE: No. You don't deserve that anymore.
*the guy is referring to the necklace given by her with a crucifix pendant which he asked her to keep while he was busy chasing others' skirts
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After a heated argument...
SHE: Puny*ta, hintayin mo na lang ang karma mo.
HE: That's bad. Cursing 'yan!
SHE: Ano'ng cursing? Eh 'yon naman talaga ang mangyayari 'pag nanakit ka ng ibang tao. What you give, you receive. Hindi ka pa ba nagtataka kung bakit sunud-sunod ang kamalasan mo sa buhay?!
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HE: Palagi na lang ako ang nagpapakumbaba...
SHE: Natural! Ikaw ang may atraso 'no!
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HE: I just want to date women right now and never get serious with them.
SHE: As always. May bago pa ba do'n?
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HE: Bakit ka umiiyak? Mahal mo pa ako 'nooo???
SHE: Ang kapal! Hindi ikaw ang iniiyakan ko. Naiiyak ako sa sobrang galit, bobo!
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HE: Fated na mangyari ang mga 'yon. Otherwise, I won't realize how much I love this person.
SHE: Sige, i-justify mo pa ang pagiging flirt mo. Ano'ng klaseng logic yan? You don't need other people to realize how much you love someone kung talagang nagmamahal ka.
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SHE: Mula ngayon, di ka na nagi-exist. Huwag ka nang magpakita sa akin!
HE: Eh di huwag! Ayoko na rin naman eh.
SHE: Eh bakit lapit ka pa nang lapit?!
HE: Eh bakit sama ka pa nang sama?!
SHE: Sayang ang libreng food eh! Bawas gastos din 'yon 'noh.
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SHE: Shut up! I don't even wanna hear your voice!
HE: Eh di huwag kang makinig. I am talking to myself, masama ba?
SHE: Isang salita mo pa diyan, babasagin ko ang salamin ng kotse mo!
The guy shut up. Hahaha, kotse lang pala ang katapat.
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Now I know what "He's making a monster out of me" means. When a person doesn't bring out the best in you anymore and rather does the opposite, it's about time to kick him out of your life for good before he totally destroys the innate goodness in you.
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